Best things to talk about with a girl that`s so beautiful like me.
What should you actually say when you start talking to a girl? What do girls find interesting?Here are 6 topics that are fun and easy to start off a conversation. Movies, music, or books (What does she like? Figure out if you have anything in common.). Goals and dreams (What does she dream of doing in the future?). Family (Where are they from, does she have any siblings?). Traveling (Does she have any travel plans? What’s the coolest place she’s visited?). Work or school (What does she work with/what class does she like best?)
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What she likes doing in her free time. These topic are great to start off with because most girls have something to say about it. When you’ve started talking you can go deeper and develop the conversation more from there.
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If you ever run out of things to say, any of these topics are great to restart the conversation. Read more on how to start a conversation with someone you like. 2. How to stop being nervous when talking to cute girls. For some of us, nervousness causes us to freeze up as soon as we’ve started talking to a girl we like. Even worse if we got a crush on her. There are many reasons to feel nervous when we’ve started talking with a girl: It feels like more is at stake, We’re afraid of rejection, We don’t have enough experience talking to girls, We become self-conscious around a cute girl we want to impress.I have 3 tricks to deal with nervosity (and shyness).
A. Focus on the girl instead of on yourself. Do this by putting your focus on what the girl is saying, how she’s feeling, what she wants. Ask yourself questions in your head about these things. Try to figure out who she really is. Article continues below.
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When you switch your focus from yourself to her like this, something magical happens. Your nervosity and self-consciousness will start to disappear. That’s because your brain can’t focus on two things at the same time. So if you focus on the girl, you’ll make sure you stay present and avoid any extreme nervosity. It’s better to be a bit nervous than not nervous at all. If you’re a bit nervous and it shines through, that can create a certain tension and intensity. That tension is good for the chemistry between you and the girl. For example, if your voice starts to shake a little, it won’t turn her off. Instead, it helps make the interaction more exciting and genuine. It signals that this means something to you which makes it more interesting to the girl.Nervosity is our body’s reaction to preparing us for a new and challenging situation. It has the psychological function of making us more creative and wittier.
When we realize nervosity is there to help us, we can stop being “afraid of being afraid”.
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C. Acting with fear
Just because we are afraid doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t do something. Even if your voice is shaking, we can still decide to make conversation with a girl we’re attracted to. This is a powerful mindset known by behavioral scientists as acting with fear. It’s GREAT to be nervous and still do things you are afraid of. That’s how you conquer your fear. It feels like fear is a sign to stop. But in reality, fear is a sign that something good is about to happen: That we are going to do something that will help us grow as a person. Fear is not a sign to stop. It’s a sign of growth.
3. Learn how to talk to girls with the “bucket principle”. When we talk to a girl we’re attracted to, we often feel that we need to come off as smart, confident, and attractive. When we try to solve this nearly impossible equation, we lock up. The end result is that we become less attractive.
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